Live YOUR Life for YOU!

So recently I found myself feeling tired and worn out for what seemed to be no reason. It was summer break, so I wasn’t working. I was half assing my workouts so I wasn’t sore. I had been cancelling plans left and right so I wasn’t being social. I was a hermit. I was sitting... Continue Reading →

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How did I get here…

So here I am at a fork trying to figure out what to do next…I see everyone around me living out my dreams and I don’t understand why I’m not getting these opportunities. Yes, everyone says what God has for you is for you but in my mind, I’m like a toddler screaming “God you’re... Continue Reading →

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The Gin that didn’t make me sin

Not only do we wear pink on Wednesdays, We also DRINK pink! LISTEN!! I have never been a gin drinker but The Women in Spirits event at Harold’s in the Heights changed my mind. I’m not a regular gin drinker, I’m a PINK gin drinker. Beefeater’s Pink Gin to be exact! At the ‘On Wednesdays... Continue Reading →

What You Got 2019?

It’s time for New Year’s resolutions and I’m not making any humongous goals or anything this year. I just want to resolve that I keep the same happiness, joy and sense of fulfillment and spirit of giving and self care regimen as I have right now during the Christmas and holiday season. I just hope... Continue Reading →

But It’s Just Hair…Right?

I grew up ashamed of my hair. Everyone around me had long silky straight hair that grew down their backs and I didn’t. I used to always tell my mom that I wanted to wear my hair “hanging down” like my friends at school who were many other races, none were black. While they were... Continue Reading →

Mask Off

A mask is a covering for all or part of the face, worn as a disguise, or to amuse or terrify other people. A mask is meant to be used for fun. To be taken off after an event or holiday for you to return to your natural face. The face that everyone knows you... Continue Reading →


Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.comSo I’ve noticed that the closer I get to thirty the more everyone seems to be interested in my love life. I’m not just talking about my parents and family, I mean my girl friends, guy friends, strangers, people I run into at church, stangers… EVERYONE. I’m not sure if anyone... Continue Reading →

Summer DIY Project #1: Operation Dresser

So I have been away from my blog for far too long but I am back. This post will be a little different compared to my other posts but I wanted to share so share I will do! For those of you who may not know me, I must tell you that I am not... Continue Reading →

Adulting is HARD

It just is. I’m not sure if I’m the only one, but I feel like there was a class in high school or possibly college that was a life prep or adult prep class of some sort and I missed it. Not to like I missed one or two classes but like I missed the... Continue Reading →

It’s What You Do When No One Is Watching

I’m writing to you from the end of my 21 day fast and I can’t say that I’m mad about my decision to go 21 days without alcohol. Going into it, I was of course worried that I wouldn’t make it (see previous post on consistency) or that I would be stuck in the house... Continue Reading →

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